Dearborn Co. family continues foster care passion

(DEARBORN CO., Ind.) – A local family is being recognized for their involvement in the foster care system. 

Thomas and Courtney Wilhelm have fostered 11 children since 2023 and are being recognized by Indiana Foster Care for their efforts. 

They initially got involved as a way to grow their family but have continued fostering as a way to support children and families who are in the system. 

“What began as opening our home has grown into a deeper purpose – using what we’ve learned to help address pain points within the foster care system itself,” Courtney said.  

The Wilhelm’s are strongly supportive of reunification with the child’s biological family when possible as well.

The experience has also allowed them to learn more about the Department of Child Services (DCS) and some of the challenges that are present. 

“Much of what I’ve been working on has grown directly out of the challenges foster families face when trying to meet the complex needs of children who have experienced severe neglect or trauma,” Courtney said. 

Seeing these needs has led Courtney to begin working on an app with the overarching goal of improving the placement matching of children in need to the families willing to care for them. 

“My hope is that more thoughtful, informed matching can reduce placement disruptions and create greater stability for children and caregivers alike,” she said. 

Beyond her technical work with the app, Courtney serves as a member of the Foster Parent Advisory Board and the couple also mentors other families who have received their foster care license. 

She’s encouraging more families to consider getting involved with foster care. 

“I wish more people understood that foster care is about healing, not just housing. These children aren’t “difficult” they are responding to trauma. When you shift your perspective everything changes,” Courtney stated. 

Courtney also stressed and encouraged others to stay the course during difficult times. 

“For brand-new foster parents, I’d emphasize the importance of patience, flexibility, and asking for help. You don’t have to do everything perfectly. Learn to advocate early, build relationships with your team and give yourself grace,” she said.

You can read more about the Wilhelm’s and the Indiana Foster Care system by clicking here.